No diddling the seafood.

I want a whole bunch of different things, all at once. No, I don't want to *have* all of them all at once, I do my *wanting* all at once. In the same way you might want a lobster dinner, a nice fuck, and a good night's sleep -- you can be in a state of wanting about all three at once, but if your desire is granted you want them to occur in sequence, not all at the same time. ("*pant, pant* I love you, honey" "**SNORE**" -- doesn't fly.)

It is occurring to me that in my relationships with other people, I could stand to be a lot clearer and more explicit about the interrelationships among my desires.